Tips for Helping Buyers & Sellers Who Have a Loved One on the Autism Spectrum


Autism has been described as a neurodevelopmental difference. Described by individuals on the autism spectrum as a different way of perceiving and experiencing the world. Hence, Autistic individuals have a unique set of strengths. Along with unique challenges, and perspectives that provide valuable insight into the reality of living with autism.

-Living On The Spectrum

Autism can present in many ways so I'd suggest talking with your clients and asking questions but for this pamphlet, I'll go into some of the ways autism can impact a person as it pertains to moving.

Preparation Ideas

Oftentimes individuals with ASD thrive with routine and have difficulty with changes. If possible, help give the person as much advanced notice as possible. Below are some ideas you can share with your clients.

  • Create a calendar and let them be involved in the tracking of dates. It could be laminated with velcro tabs to track progress.
  • Talk about a move. What it is going to be like and what will they experience?
  • Use social stories.
  • Let them pack and unpack boxes.
  • For younger children, read books or watch shows like Daniel Tiger who have episodes about the move.

Autism Little Learners has some great free resources that I can share.

A book I used with my son was Big Ernie's New Home: A Story for Children Who Are Moving.

Tips for Buyers

Someone people with autism may process information from their senses differently. They may be unable to filter out irrelevant noises or sights, such as, the microwave or flickering light. Or they may find certain sounds, lights, or textures to be severely distracting or uncomfortable.

--Interactive Autism Network. Interview with Dr. Anil Darbari

When you're showing a house to a client keep in mind that you may not notice something sensory related that can cause deep distress for a person on the spectrum. Imagine walking into a new space and feeling like you've been hit in the face with a hammer of sounds, smells, and light!

  • Ask your buyers if they'd like space or if you walking with them would be helpful.
  • Go slow, book longer appointment windows so no one is rushed.
  • If the agent remarks mention pets being secured in crates, let the buyer know before you go in.
  • Be aware of noises - electronics in the house, dripping sounds.

Tips for Sellers

On the selling side know that last minute showings may be very difficult to accomodate. Talk with the sellers ahead of time to get an idea of when showings will or will not work for them. Certain routines may not be able to be adjusted but if you know ahead, you can prepare.

  • If there are hobby rooms, they may come with special rules attached to them for showings.
  • If your seller is an autistic adult, they may be very detail oriented and may follow rules/the contract to the letter.

Meltdowns and How To React

What is a meltdown and what to do if one happens? A meltdown will look different for everyone and will look different in different age groups. Meltdowns happen when someone feels completely overwhelmed, they lose control of their behavior, and find it very hard to calm themselves. A meltdown can look like a panic attack, a violent outburst, rocking, head-banging, or just being generally upset. It's important to know that a meltdown is not a tantrum.

If a meltdown happens, ask if anyone needs assistance and if they don't just step away. Don't be alarmed and just give people space.

Summary

Moving is stressful for everyone and there are additional challenges for people in the neurodivergent community but having a bit more understanding of their needs can drastically change the process and hopefully reduce the stress!


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