Autism has been described as a neurodevelopmental difference. Described by individuals on the autism spectrum as a different way of perceiving and experiencing the world. Hence, Autistic individuals have a unique set of strengths. Along with unique challenges, and perspectives that provide valuable insight into the reality of living with autism.
-Living On The Spectrum
Autism can present in many ways so I'd suggest talking with your clients and asking questions but for this pamphlet, I'll go into some of the ways autism can impact a person as it pertains to moving.
Preparation Ideas
Oftentimes individuals with ASD thrive with routine and have difficulty with changes. If possible, help give the person as much advanced notice as possible. Below are some ideas you can share with your clients.
Autism Little Learners has some great free resources that I can share.
A book I used with my son was Big Ernie's New Home: A Story for Children Who Are Moving.
Tips for Buyers
Someone people with autism may process information from their senses differently. They may be unable to filter out irrelevant noises or sights, such as, the microwave or flickering light. Or they may find certain sounds, lights, or textures to be severely distracting or uncomfortable.
--Interactive Autism Network. Interview with Dr. Anil Darbari
When you're showing a house to a client keep in mind that you may not notice something sensory related that can cause deep distress for a person on the spectrum. Imagine walking into a new space and feeling like you've been hit in the face with a hammer of sounds, smells, and light!
Tips for Sellers
On the selling side know that last minute showings may be very difficult to accomodate. Talk with the sellers ahead of time to get an idea of when showings will or will not work for them. Certain routines may not be able to be adjusted but if you know ahead, you can prepare.
Meltdowns and How To React
What is a meltdown and what to do if one happens? A meltdown will look different for everyone and will look different in different age groups. Meltdowns happen when someone feels completely overwhelmed, they lose control of their behavior, and find it very hard to calm themselves. A meltdown can look like a panic attack, a violent outburst, rocking, head-banging, or just being generally upset. It's important to know that a meltdown is not a tantrum.
If a meltdown happens, ask if anyone needs assistance and if they don't just step away. Don't be alarmed and just give people space.
Summary
Moving is stressful for everyone and there are additional challenges for people in the neurodivergent community but having a bit more understanding of their needs can drastically change the process and hopefully reduce the stress!
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